When Your Quiet Uncle Is a Hero

The Chapel speaker was head of another school, but he had a uniquely Groton story to tell.
 
When Todd Bland, head of Milton Academy, walked to the pulpit in St. John’s Chapel Tuesday morning, he began to unravel a moving speech about heroes—those we know and those we may not realize are among us.

He began to describe his Uncle Harry, admitting that he and his cousins sometimes made fun of the “unusual character” who didn’t seem to work, "looked a bit like Einstein," and wore suits even in wretched heat.
 
Throughout his life, Mr. Bland had considered his grandfather, Congressman and diplomat Jonathan Brewster Bingham, his hero. He didn’t realize that seemingly odd Uncle Harry (aka Hiram Bingham IV) would earn, post-mortem, the U.S. Constructive Dissent Award, a Medal of Valor from the Simon Wiesenthal Center, a place on the Episcopal Church's list of American Saints, and even a postage stamp in his honor. 
 
It was 1992, four years after Harry’s death, when family members discovered letters with clues to just how heroic unassuming Harry had been—and why he had lost his job with the U.S. Foreign Service after working at the Consulate in Marseilles, France. He had joined the Consulate in 1939, a year before the Nazis occupied France. Jews were desperate to leave France, but a State Department official's order had instructed diplomats to “put every obstacle in the way” of their visas. 
 
Uncle Harry could not abide that order. “In his position, he was not allowed to, or supposed to, grant papers to refugees,” Mr. Bland said. So Uncle Harry quietly disobeyed, over and over and over again, granting exit papers and ultimately saving the lives of an estimated 2,500 Jews. “He did what he knew in his heart was right,” Mr. Bland said. "And ultimately he [lost his position] as a result of that." What once seemed an inexplicable departure from the Foreign Service was actually a result of Uncle Harry's moral decision to choose humanity over bad policy.

Mr. Bland never came to know his heroic uncle very well. “How many people in our lives have we looked at and not seen the very best?” he asked the Groton community, which had gathered for the first morning Chapel after a long spring vacation. "How many people have we judged, unduly, because of what we actually don't know about them?" 
 
The kicker to Mr. Bland’s Chapel talk? It was a Groton story. Many of the speaker's family members attended Groton School, including his grandfather (Form of 1932) and, yes, Uncle Harry (Form of 1921).
 
“There is something in this place that for generations has cultivated an ability in young people and older people to think the very best of others and therefore to make others heroes,” he said, thinking not only of his uncle, but also of what lies ahead for his nephew Paul, who graduates from Groton this spring and who worked with Headmaster Temba Maqubela to bring Mr. Bland to campus. "The world is filled with ordinary people," continued the speaker, quoting famed basketball coach Jim Valvano, "but ordinary people are capable of extraordinary things."
 
Harry Bingham IV was once a Groton teenager, too, sitting in the very same Chapel where Mr. Bland, inspired by his uncle, urged today's students: “I hope that each of you make decisions in your lives because you know in your heart they are right even if lots of people are telling you that they are wrong.”
 
He went on to express hope that all might one day recognize their own potential not only to become heroes, but to create heroes in others. “What I hope for each of you,” Mr. Bland said, “is that you remember that you have the power—just by the way in which you look into someone’s eyes—to make them a hero. To make your siblings, your classmates, your teachers, your students, your nephews, your nieces—to make them heroes by demonstrating your faith in and love for them.”

Photo composite: Milton Academy Head Todd Bland and Hiram "Harry" Bingham IV
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